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Give people a top ten list (movies from the 80s, e.g.) to rank.

My brother (in his 30s) calls me up when he needs support, and I do genuinely care. I’m sorry you don’t have someone. That must be terrible. 😔

Spouse or best friend, depending on the situation. (If my spouse is driving me up a wall, best friend it is!) Larger friend group of it’s something less personal or that I want advice or help from multiple people for. It’s taken me a long time, and a lot of personal healing and growth, to get to this point in my life where I have so many people I can rely on. It’s really nice.

Get a laptop cooling stand.