I can agree having a loud car every day is inconsiderate but having a regular car and one that you take out on the weekends to go to shows and have fun isn’t to me idk though kinda a car nerd prolly a bit skewed. I don’t think driving fast in a fairly controlled situation is really reckless driving, legally it qualifies as it but not really being reckless
I think you just got unlucky most people don’t have anything close to that experience