“your hat doesn’t look good, but you look alright” negging is weird. I once got “you look like Albert Einstein” it was a guy who wanted to talk about some charity with Einstein as their center piece(?). I am still unsure how I feel about that haha

I was also a bit confused about that (also use the app) but I found this page https://lemmy.world/communities/listing_type/All/page/1

Loged in and been looking through all the pages and subscribing directly