Everyone saying OPs partner has problems needs to chill. The post says said partner claims some men don’t clean their asshole, nowhere does it say they don’t clean their own asshole. Yes it’s true OP, but that doesn’t mean it’s common.

Okay thanks! So pretty much as long as I don’t have any issues, no need to change my instance

I still don’t know what instance to use or if it matters. But I like it, the community is similar enough to reedits. I’m looking forward to using Sync for lemmy though. I miss sync for reddit lol